good vs bad

is it really difficult to appreciate one's positive actions? why is it that people easily see and react to the negative actions other people do rather than notice the good ones? is it human nature or just how people are used to deal with things? i think its unfair.

i hope somehow we realize that the more we ignore the good deeds and just react to the failures of a person, the more it would be difficult for that person to work on being better. what's the point of doing good if no one notices right?

i guess for the people who are experiencing the same, you just need to find motivation to be better from somewhere - like from yourselves. remeber that you are the writer of your life. no one can and should write it for you.